Mission
Vision: Protect the Faithful and Children
- Faithful parents and children will live free from the fear of abuse, robbery, extortion, and injustice from the family court system and from unfaithful, dishonest, and abusive spouses.
Mission of AngryDivorcedGuy
Where we are now
- Faithful parents and their children suffer intense, lasting agony from a family court that shreds the families of small children for profit while bullying and extorting from the faithful and pandering to the narcissism of the unfaithful and attorneys.
Our Mission: Getting to the Vision
- To lead the world in identifying and implementing measures that protect the family from adultery, abuse, injustice, and divorce thereby causing divorce and problems associated with divorce to drop.
Goals
- Fun–make it fun. Celebrate every small success somehow. Don’t think funness is unimportant!
- Be crazy–Make and wear controversial T-shirts, buttons, hats in public as a group or individually.
- Leadership–Visualize the vision until others hunger for it.
- Evangelize–Talk about the vision at church, at home, at school, at work.
- Put your AngryDivorcedGuy.com profile in your signature and blog around (but only in appropriate places)
- Join Toastmasters or other organizations to learn to speak about it in public.
- Develop a few short, pointed questions that will help politicians communicate what effective changes they are implementing and what success they are having.
- Use those questions in letters and in questions in public forums, not as an attack, but to win an effective ally.
- Brainstorm–Identify and effectively address all objections and tricks that defend unilateral no-fault divorce. Share them with others.
- Brainstorm–Identify shared purpose and potential synergies with other organizations to enlarge base. Follow up by making contacts.
- Brainstorm–Identify governmental and commercial funding and grants.
- Establish page of supporters for this or the other websites.
- Develop leadership to teach, push, share, spread, and manage the vision
- Develop scalability and redundancy so the vision and drive will grow.
Extended Goals
- Demand the right to sue adulterers and their accomplices for breach of contract and alienation of affection with heavy damages.
- Vigorously prosecute and assign fault to severe abuse.
- Prosecute and assign fault to intentional perjury, strategic false accusations, strategic restraining orders, and strategic prompting of children to participate in false accusations.
- Require agreement between the couple before a divorce is declared “no-fault”.
- Establish standard procedures which must be followed by mediators, divorcing couples, and courts for a no-fault divorce to be allowed.
Anger Management
If you have ever been cheated on, ousted unfairly from the home, slandered, and robbed of your children, your home, your property, and your income only to be taxed on the losses, you may want to shoot or torture someone to death.
In fact, you may be so severely anger you could hate the world, denounce your patriotism entirely or consider going postal just to get some attention to this issue.
It may seem every politician and every organization sees this as something outside their focus and expertise. The solution may seem to be perpetually “elsewhere” or “nowhere”. It may seem you cannot do anything because you need a million people to get involved and you cannot even get more than three or four at most.
The solution is simple.
Find a group of others who feel as you do and join it. Maybe this one, or maybe another. Grow the group. Cherish the vision and mission and share it until others hunger for it and believe in it enough to do something about it. Make it a force to be reckoned with.
Instead of being like a million other people who merely have a complaint, be someone who has a dream, a vision, a purpose, a goal, and knows what that vision looks like when it begins to happen.
Celebrate the small victories, and tell people. When you do, it may open the door to tell them the vision and mission of this group or some other marriage saving group.
You don’t have to wait for others to join before you do. Be someone who was doing this before it was “cool” to be doing it! Give yourself to this mission today and become a hero your children and grandchildren can be proud of! Give them an infinitely precious blessing during the one and only childhood they will ever have!
Sincerely,
Daniel J. Dick
True. People say that all the time, and probably the reason they say that is that there is some substance and validity in what you said. However, it seems almost everyone knows this, and yet there are still so many divorces today.
After giving serious thought to the marriage websites I set up, I first thought about making this a website focused on anger management, but then thought it might be good to focus it on bringing people who have suffered injustice in family court together, to unite, and bring visibility to the political leaders and accountability for what they are doing to turn this around and how well it is working.
As for communication, part of the problem is indeed the absence of communication, but part of that problem is due to hurtful communication, fighting unfairly, attacking each other rather than the problem, bullying in various ways, disrespect, revenge, bitterness, bad expectations, and altogether the kind of behavior that simply does not work in a marriage. The key here is to try something new within the marriage rather than trying something new outside the marriage. Model good behavior for the children. Take the high road. Be honest. Honor the vows. Forget the past because you cannot change it anyway and neither can your spouse or your children. Don’t condone sin; don’t encourage sin; don’t excuse sin; don’t enable sin; don’t defend sin; don’t seek revenge for sin; but do, do, do forgive sin and take notice when your family members are doing something right. Catch them doing something good!
Yikes–I did this as Administrator, but I’m Dan