Violence Against Guys Who Steal Wives and Girlfriends
Did You Ever Want to Kill or Beat up the Other Man?
Daggers
When my ex went into an affair with another man after almost 10 years of marriage, I prayed the guy would splatter his guts on the freeway in a motorcycle accident. I prayed his family including his daughter would be cursed and die. I could not believe the level of hatred and anger I experienced, and it was something far beyond anything I had experienced before. Don’t worry. That’s in the past and all has been forgiven on both sides.
But, it’s natural to be angry.
But, You Choose to Avoid Violence
- One reason you avoid violence is you don’t want to go to jail.
- Second, you are not a violent person and you don’t want to become one.
- Third, you know it is wrong. Deserved, yes. But, wrong nevertheless.
Imagine You’re a Soldier in the Military
You kiss your wife and children before going to Iraq or Afghanistan. You work hard. You fight carefully, skillfully, courageously, wisely with expertise you learned in training but your focus is dulled. You no longer receive regular letters from your wife and children.
You assume they’re busy. And now it’s time to go home, and strangely you’re afraid. But, why? Is it like high-school graduation where you’ll be leaving friends? And what will you find when you go home? Will your family be the same? Will they be waiting for you when you get off the plane? Will they remember you?
Your plane lands and taxis up to a stop. The speaker goes “Ding” and the seatbelt light turns off and you get your carry-on luggage and go down the stairs looking for your family. You hug your parents and ask where your wife and children are, and your mom cries. Your dad gives you the news. Another man has taken over your family, your wife, your children, your house, everything, and your parents ask you to stay with them.
Where Do You Go From Here?
I have read that the deepest, most grievous cause of depression among military personnel is not post traumatic shock syndrome or anything related to war; it is the loss of a relationship–a marriage–a relationship with one’s spouse and children. Abandonment. Betrayal.
If this were not enough, divorce courts thrust the betrayed soldier into court to be threatened with the loss of everything–marriage, wife, children, home, property, and even half of his pension. From this one might quickly conclude this is a men’s rights issue as more men are suffering this kind of injustice than women. But, truth is, in the military, a greater percentage of women suffer abandonment by their spouses than men.
The Good of the Children
Family courts and child support courts act in cowardice toward the faithful
- shredding the families of small children for profit,
- pretending to give priority to the greatest well-being of the children,
- fear mongering to extort protection money from the faithful parent who does not deserve to be robbed of children or property or money under the guise of “child support”,
- pimping for the unfaithful spouse and his or her partner, and
- threatening every family in America
You may be tempted to blast a few of them into kingdom come, but will it produce the results you seek? Well, others have done this, and how well is it working?
What needs to happen is not for a few people to do greatly treacherous things to get attention.
What needs to happen is for many, many people to do
- something legal,
- something right,
- something faithful,
- something courageous,
- something right,
- SOMETHING
And if all you do is wait for someone else to do it, then you’re a part of the problem.
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